I wish that I could get all the people I love to take a survey of all the things they see about me. I feel like I get so caught up in how I see myself, that I would want to see how others see me. How they see me, how they see my image, what they perceive as flaws. I am so interested in this that I’ve thought about logistics about how I could get this done.
I watched a video on the internet about dealing with haters and criticism. They saw them as a critique and a way to possibly be better. To use the criticism, decide if they want to address it, or ignore it. I kind of want to do that, except I definitely don’t have the amount of guts she has. I am also a pretty mushy soft feely person. I take a lot of things personally and what not. But maybe that’s also a flaw people would say?
I am so intrigued. If I can ever find a way to do it, you will most certainly get an email from me.
Don’t you ever wonder about this? And I can’t think of any other people who I would value their opinions more. I know I’m not perfect, but I want to be better. I want to always try to be more. I realize I have flaws: I am so impatient, I have a quick temper. But I want to know if there’s more, no matter how small that I’m being blind to.
Just know you can always email me and let me know. I would appreciate the feedback.
Am I the only one? Maybe people would argue that the best way to do this would be to reflect alone and not be swayed by what others think. But I can be the most perfect person in my head, but being a good person is reflected in how I treat people.