I think everyone handles sadness differently. For me, I work. I mean I work a lot, I’m a work-aholic anyway, but it’s how I’ve gotten through a lot of things – moving, sadness, depression. So I just work and don’t talk about it. And for me, that’s okay. It’s not that I don’t think about it, I just don’t feel the need to talk about it. I like working and it makes me feel productive. I know it’s not healthy to only do that, and I don’t. I spend time with my family too. But it’s not only a defense mechanism, but also something I do.
I didn’t want people to think I have a heart of stone/ice