Enough is Enough

 

For a while I convinced myself it would be okay. That the world would not get so overwhelming and full of hate. But not today. Today I woke up and it all just cracked.

I have had enough. I have seen enough of what the world is possible of. I can’t even. The hateful speech and the way people twist the law, their words. The feelings that fill me is more than rage, it is disillusionment, disappointment, frustration, and anger: a fierce blinding rage. Rage that I have to rage. I got so burned out during college doing my anti-sweatshop work because I was so tired of being angry, when no one else was. When I was met with apathy and my rage burned a hole in me. It has taken years to bounce back.

But things are a changing. My self-care tells me I need to give myself a break. But my heart tells me that while I do that, others livelihoods are being threated. I do not have the luxury of being on the sidelines. I belong out there. I do and so does everyone else. Because this is wrong. I can feel it in my bones, in my fingers.

This instinct, has been brewing. I felt it when I was young and convinced it would be easier to try to fit in than embrace who I was. I felt it when I was raped and every day after when I convinced myself it would go away. I felt it when I saw the workers in Latin America and comforted myself with what I was doing. My body is revolting. It is telling me this is wrong. My stomach lurches and my head buzzes with the injustice.

It is not easier to be silent, to be on the sidelines, to observe – it is complicity. When we are on the sidelines, we have the privilege of not engaging. Not everyone has that. We need to stand up, if not for someone else, our neighbor, if not for our future children, then for ourselves, for our sense of dignity and our sense of humanity.

Back to It

Sorry for the absence lately, and this post. I have been so busy trying to catch up. Now I am all caught up and ready to begin being productive and on track. I have been devoting all my free time to my book reviewing blog and that is basically a part time job on top of my full time job.

I may or may not be a little stressed out.

Please know I am coming back and will give you something real to read Friday!

Birthday Recap

So Friday I left after we had a birthday lunch of gnocchi pasta my friend made for me (which was super yummy). I came home and cleaned a bit and then talked to my parents. That night we went to Indian and it was so yummy, even though the staff were a bit aggressive. No one came over for board games after, but that also meant no one had cake. So I had two and a half cakes for Saturday.

I went to a lovely birthday lunch and a surprise movie! After marching in the women’s marches abroad. For dinner we had Italian and come here to play games after. We played one round, but then had cake and just hung out till late. And we ate almost all the cakes!

Then today I had people over, who couldn’t come play games, and we had tea and cake…and played some board games! They were so fun and then I had a special skype session 🙂

I am glad I gave people a wishlist of books because it worked really well! I got tons of books I wanted and even two I didn’t list, but look really great. I also think people appreciated having a list because they knew that they could get me something I would like and it was super easy!

 

BIRTHDAY

It is my birthday today. I am so excited! Today is a birthday dinner, as well as tomorrow (large group of friends) and a Saturday lunch! Full of birthday festivities and happiness I hope!

 

HAPPY BIRTH DAY TO ALL OF YOU!

oh and supposed birth of course. Can never know about these things

Lanzarote

First off, Lanzarote was fabulously beautiful. It was like being on a movie set and, while we saw many tourists, when we were walking there was no one there! I don’t know if it was because of what we did, or where we were, but it was almost as if we had the whole thing to ourselves.

In a nut shell, the days I wasn’t sick, were absolutely stunning. We spent the first day exploring the mountain via car and seeing the wide range of landscape. It was gorgeous to take a leisurely car tour. We even saw a Caesar Manriquez Museum. We ended up seeing two, one in Haria and Tahice and I prefered the one in Tahice better (everyone in our group did). The next day we did a long four hour hike which took us up two volcanoes and around a total of four. We also met a very nice Scottish man. The first volcano was hard, but the next was extreme and I fell twice that day, once a slip down and the other a fall near the coast. I saw many dead animal bones, but the landscape was fabulous. After that we went to a Volcano park which was stunning and a comfortable bus tour. They do the bus tour to cut down on cars going around and it was prehistoric. We could see the insides of volcanos and even feel the dormant heat of one. We ate a lunch which was grilled on the heat of a volcano. Then the next three days are a blur where I was very sniffly, but also had a fever one day which I do not remember at all. I vaguely remember Pizza and burgers, so there must have been a Wednesday in there somewhere (Wed was Pizza day at a local restaurant). During this time, the group went off and did another long and strenuous hike. I was glad to be at home, but not glad to feel my head.  My favorite day was our exploration of La Graciousa which felt like the island scene of Shakespeare in Love and I felt glorious. It was so beautiful and one of my favorite walks was down the coast line. Then the other partner was sick, so the next two days were at home again, but I had the best fish dinner ever as well! After that we had a leisurely day where we took a walk on the top of the cliffs near Haria and saw the other Manriquez museum. Our final day we saw Jameos Del Agua which is a cute cave with really white crabs. We also walked around the coast a little before leaving.

I spent a lot of my trip at home, but it was good and stunning. As I said, the days not at home, were all beautiful and the pictures make me so happy! I’ll try to upload some a little later.

Things That Give Me Anxiety

Sorry about the blank post! I forgot to edit it and then by the time I was gone there was no way to change it! I am back from vacation everyone! How were you while I was gone? Good I hope.

Things that give me anxiety (let’s start off with something short and sweet to get us all used to blogging again!)

  • take off and landing
  • no clear eating schedule
  • driving in cars with people who don’t usually drive me around
  • being unprepared
  • having my things potentially stolen
  • the threat of losing things
  • having a nagging feeling that won’t go away

This is a short list, not all generated from my travels, but that was inspired by our snowy landing the other day!

Speaking of that, I loved seeing the snow when I got back here 🙂

Switzerland

I Just got back from my travelcation to Switzerland. I went to the Italian part of Switzerland.

This was preceded by two pots of cheese fondue for lunch in Basel. On the first evening we got there an hour early, so we had time to relax and catch up before going out to a five course surprise menu. We made sure they didn’t serve us frogs. It was a real danger.

The second day we toured around Lugano (I had been here before, but not everyone had been). It was pretty slow and touristy, but you need some tourism in your life sometimes, am I right? We had the spiciest, but most delicious guacamole.

The next day we walked around and the weather was beautiful and sunny. It was a wonderful day and then we made some great food with the left overs from the fridge.

The next day after that we drove for hours around to some great sights and took a few wonderful photos.

Our almost last day we did some more driving sights, but closer to the ground (relatively). And with some great food again! This was NYE.

The trend with food is real.

Our last day, which was New Years day we had a lazy start and then had a wonderful lunch before heading back to here!

Long story short? Much yummy food, beautiful sights, lots of snow tipped mountains, and even some snow on the ground.

Was absolutely lovely.

Switzerland is the land of tunnels though.

Meditate for Others

I was listening to my Headspace meditation session yesterday and it asked us to focus on how our meditation helps others. It said that this can soften our heart. We can often not prioritize what we are doing or minimize it when we do it only for ourselves. By also looking at a source of external motivation, this can help us stick to a plan, because we examine the benefit our actions have on the people around us.

I feel a little divided about this, because I want to meditate purely for myself. I want to see the value and see the importance it has for me, without someone else. At the same time, I cannot deny that when there is an outward pull, we can be more motivated.

So who do I meditate for?

I meditate primarily for myself, so I have less anxiety, can sleep more and function better. But, my meditation helps those around me too. When I am unhappy I can be unpleasant to be around, so my meditation helps in that respect as well.

Overall, I’m not sure about this whole meditate for others too idea, but I’m willing to think about it.

Travel Plans Announcement

Hi folks, I just wanted to come here and say I hope you all had a really great News Years. I was in Switzerland for News Years and in two days I leave for the Canary Islands, so I will see if I can get some posts written ahead of time, but please excuse me if I have none until the 16th of January.

I am thinking that I will not bring my laptop, so I won’t even have a way to write posts. It’ll be a mini-vacation from work, so I don’t want to stress myself to write. If I have ideas during the trip, I will accumulate them and write them after my trip so you will have a lot of trip or travel blogs to read after!!

December Memory Roundup

Oh boy, this is a tough one. My favorite memories this month has centered around spending time with friends and good food. That could be the highlight reel, food and people.

What more do you really need?

There were nights of wine and cheese, potlucks (like always), company/work dinners, family dinners, fancy dinners. All of these were populated by wonderful and kind people who made the food even better.

I am really looking forward with what January brings already! The Canary Islands, my birthday, and this new creative spirit for my book photos.

I hope December was as kind to you and that looking back you can see more of the good. That is one thing my gratitude journal has really helped me do – focus on the good.